Post by punkybrewster on Aug 14, 2007 23:01:13 GMT -5
ok...here's the deal....
[sorry it's so long but i have to let it out it's important...and i'd apreciate if you would read and give your opinion
ok...so i went out with boy #1 for two and a half years, and up until about a few months ago it was pretty good, but i met this guy who was always at the parties and hangout sessions i went to with our friends(really my boyfriends friends that had gotten to know and accept me as one of the guys) and well i loved talking to this guy...and i didn't really think much of it, i just liked to talk to him (oh, and i'm almost 19 btw, so don't look at this like something immature) anyway guy #2 started talking with me and mostly that's alll we did when we were at parties, we talked to each other more than anybody else at the parties...well it was really dying between me and my boyfriend and i was starting to grow as a person and become more myself...and the real me started really getting sick of him and really likeing the new guy, but i didn't know what to do about it so i didn't break up with him right away...who can blame me for getting confused right?
so me and guy #2 started flirting even more and that's when i realised he liked me too...and so i mentioned liking him to him on msn one night and he told me how much he liked talking to me and we talked about how much we liked talking and how comfortable we were around each other....but we didn't really know what to do about it....so we kept up the heavy flirting and my relationship with my boyfriend got worse and i really ctarted to like guy #2 a LOT...to the point where i thought about it a LOT so i HAD to tell him how i fealt...well that night we talked on msn until 5:00 in the morning...we talked for 6 hours about how much we liked each oter (and how attracted we were too, but that part's private and doesn't need discussion here) so the next night we were at our friend's cabin and we were flirting like mad, and we went for a walk to the beach with 2 other girls cause we wanted to go on the beach cause it was nice out...and my boyfriend followed us, which was wierd, but it wasn't cause he suspected anything...he was upset that i was ignoring him....well i told him i couldn't discuss it right then and he had to wait until i figured out what i wanted(i couldn't break up with him at the cabin...it'd be too weird) but the next night we broke up and me and Guy#2 talked a LOT....so we've been hanging out ever since(about 2 weeks or so) and we've been keeping it a secret
this is my problem....
i don't want to have to keep it a secret, but if everyone found out then guy2 wouldn't have any friends left....i personally think it's rediculus...i broke up with my boyfriend...it's over between us and i don't belong to anyone...and if me and guy2 want to get to know each other and maybe get together...it shouldn't bother anyone...he didn't STEAL me or anything, i didn't dump guy1 for him, yet this is what people seem to think and say...
it's very irritating and i don't know what to do...because i really feel like i can be myself around him and i'd really like to have something with him withought interference for anyone else...it's stressful and i ddon't know what to do
again, sorry it's so long....but if you have any opinions or answers then i'd love to hear them]
what do ya think???
[sorry it's so long but i have to let it out it's important...and i'd apreciate if you would read and give your opinion
ok...so i went out with boy #1 for two and a half years, and up until about a few months ago it was pretty good, but i met this guy who was always at the parties and hangout sessions i went to with our friends(really my boyfriends friends that had gotten to know and accept me as one of the guys) and well i loved talking to this guy...and i didn't really think much of it, i just liked to talk to him (oh, and i'm almost 19 btw, so don't look at this like something immature) anyway guy #2 started talking with me and mostly that's alll we did when we were at parties, we talked to each other more than anybody else at the parties...well it was really dying between me and my boyfriend and i was starting to grow as a person and become more myself...and the real me started really getting sick of him and really likeing the new guy, but i didn't know what to do about it so i didn't break up with him right away...who can blame me for getting confused right?
so me and guy #2 started flirting even more and that's when i realised he liked me too...and so i mentioned liking him to him on msn one night and he told me how much he liked talking to me and we talked about how much we liked talking and how comfortable we were around each other....but we didn't really know what to do about it....so we kept up the heavy flirting and my relationship with my boyfriend got worse and i really ctarted to like guy #2 a LOT...to the point where i thought about it a LOT so i HAD to tell him how i fealt...well that night we talked on msn until 5:00 in the morning...we talked for 6 hours about how much we liked each oter (and how attracted we were too, but that part's private and doesn't need discussion here) so the next night we were at our friend's cabin and we were flirting like mad, and we went for a walk to the beach with 2 other girls cause we wanted to go on the beach cause it was nice out...and my boyfriend followed us, which was wierd, but it wasn't cause he suspected anything...he was upset that i was ignoring him....well i told him i couldn't discuss it right then and he had to wait until i figured out what i wanted(i couldn't break up with him at the cabin...it'd be too weird) but the next night we broke up and me and Guy#2 talked a LOT....so we've been hanging out ever since(about 2 weeks or so) and we've been keeping it a secret
this is my problem....
i don't want to have to keep it a secret, but if everyone found out then guy2 wouldn't have any friends left....i personally think it's rediculus...i broke up with my boyfriend...it's over between us and i don't belong to anyone...and if me and guy2 want to get to know each other and maybe get together...it shouldn't bother anyone...he didn't STEAL me or anything, i didn't dump guy1 for him, yet this is what people seem to think and say...
it's very irritating and i don't know what to do...because i really feel like i can be myself around him and i'd really like to have something with him withought interference for anyone else...it's stressful and i ddon't know what to do
again, sorry it's so long....but if you have any opinions or answers then i'd love to hear them]
what do ya think???