damarust
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Post by damarust on Dec 20, 2007 19:04:45 GMT -5
They are... Don't fall for him again.
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Post by daisy on Dec 20, 2007 19:56:31 GMT -5
Get rid of him.
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Post by damarust on Dec 20, 2007 20:14:30 GMT -5
Exactly.
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Post by ¤LedZeppelinLady¤ on Dec 20, 2007 23:20:38 GMT -5
Yeah its hard for me to trust anyone, now. Seriously. He said hes been arguing with his parents a lot and was still frustrated from when we hung out the other day. And he said he wasnt avoiding talking to me? I dunno. I guess I'll just have to see what happens.
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Post by damarust on Dec 20, 2007 23:24:45 GMT -5
We always lie. I mean, I've acted weird before, and then said I wasn't. We all do it, but with girls we don't feel so strongly about. Just wait a little and see how things go in the next few days.
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Post by credo on Dec 21, 2007 9:28:30 GMT -5
You will find someone though Jackey, 'cause you're sayin' people always tell you that but it never happens, my sister felt the same but she's engaged, lol XD
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Post by ¤LedZeppelinLady¤ on Dec 22, 2007 1:55:01 GMT -5
Well. I was talking to him online earlier. And pretty much what he told me was... "this relationship will not go beyond friendship" And "to be honest, no matter what you say will convince me. I am sorry" So yeah. My heart pretty much exploded. Because apparently since I was sad the other day, and I couldnt explain why, he was annoyed. That I couldnt have an in depth conversation about it. And that I "didnt look him in the eye enough" when I was talking. And that I dont "take control" enough. And theres too much distance. And he cant handle a girlfriend right now. And all these assumptions he made about me, are all untrue. And he refused to listen. We had only hung out twice. And he has made all these judgements about me, based on pretty much nothing. I was still nervous. He pointed out all the things I dont like about myself, and then used them as reasons not to be with me :/ And this hurts soooo much, I really miss him. The way things were before. So yay, I'm back to being totally alone again. Just in time for Christmas.
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Post by 11th Street Kid on Dec 22, 2007 9:26:18 GMT -5
If he's going to base you on petty things like that, I doubt he would've ever tried to find the real you. And that could've lead to a really misunderstood relationship. That probably doesn't ease the pain.. No matter how alone you feel, you're not totally alone.
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Post by credo on Dec 22, 2007 12:48:25 GMT -5
It could be worse after all.
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Post by ¤LedZeppelinLady¤ on Dec 22, 2007 14:20:38 GMT -5
I guess so. All these bad "relationships" I've had though, have really ruined me. Because I literally cant trust anyone now. I'm so paranoid now about what crap they are trying to pull on me this time. And its like I dont even want to bother getting to know someone anymore, because it will just turn out horribly and I get hurt again. And you'd think I wouldnt let history keep repeating itself, but theres no way to tell the good guys from the bad, because they fake it so well. This one said he would never hurt me and never lie to me, and understood what it was like to be depressed. Was that all a lie? I dont know. And I know this all sound pessimistic, but this is the point I have gotten to.
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Post by credo on Dec 22, 2007 14:43:43 GMT -5
Oh we understand totally, I'd be the same but you will find someone. It's just gay it has to take so long, and the ones who say they'll never hurt you are probably crap. I mean, no one thinks they can actually promise that.
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Post by ¤LedZeppelinLady¤ on Dec 23, 2007 0:02:34 GMT -5
Yeah that does make sense. I mean, I dont WANT to hurt people, and rarely do I, but I dont think I can be 100% positive I wont.
And its kind of funny now, he sent me an IM asking "so are you ever going to talk to me again?" lol like he was bothered that I wasnt still begging him.
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Post by daisy on Dec 23, 2007 1:49:46 GMT -5
What a manipulative jerk.
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Post by credo on Dec 23, 2007 6:17:44 GMT -5
Yeah, steer clear of the ones who can promise anything XD They're talking shit
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Post by ¤LedZeppelinLady¤ on Dec 23, 2007 20:19:44 GMT -5
Yeah, but I think the only reason he may have talked to me was cause I think he said he was "drunk" or something heh. But. He doesnt really act any different. Regardless, I'm still sad about this whole thing. sigh.
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