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Post by ¤LedZeppelinLady¤ on Aug 28, 2007 20:03:04 GMT -5
So I met someone who is like the male version of me. And I know that sounds cliche but its true. We have the same beliefs about almost everything. Plus a lot of other things I wont bore you with. But he seems like a really sweet, honest person. And he.....poured his heart out and told me how amazing he thought I was and how he really wanted to get to know me better. SO now, apparently, before we got a chance to do that, yesterday he has a new girlfriend? And now it seems he doesnt want to talk to me anymore. At least thats the way it seems. I havent even had a chance to talk to him about it. So yeah, I feel miserable and havent really eaten much today. #action-smiley-001#
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Post by 11th Street Kid on Aug 28, 2007 20:14:51 GMT -5
Awww, man. That sounds really messed up Doesn't quite sound like he's being as honest as he seems. Hope things are better soon. You should really talk to him.
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Post by ¤LedZeppelinLady¤ on Aug 28, 2007 20:34:33 GMT -5
Well I'm not sure whats going on cause he hasnt talked to me, but he had said a couple days ago that his girlfriend was "fucking with him" or something and it was making him depressed. So I dont know if they got back together or something? I dont know her. But he had said he hadn't dated since January so I dunno. :/ I feel horrible though. I never even got a chance... I wish that if he is "taken" that he would still talk to me in the chance that they dont stay together for long, that I'm still there or whatever. bleh.
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Post by credo on Aug 28, 2007 21:13:43 GMT -5
I wanna help but right now I'm not a great choice of advise. Split up with my girlfriend on Friday, and now my 'best friend' is going out with her.
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Post by ¤LedZeppelinLady¤ on Aug 28, 2007 21:45:25 GMT -5
Well thats mean. Castrate him?
I could easily go on a castrating spree about now. I'm so frustrated with guys; actually mostly life and how it hates me. heh.
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Post by daisy on Aug 29, 2007 1:55:43 GMT -5
Aw Jackie, I've been through like the exact same thing. Sucks Ceri, I'm so sorry! *hugs*
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Post by ¤LedZeppelinLady¤ on Aug 29, 2007 15:57:50 GMT -5
Yeah blah. I just dont know if I should....tell him how I feel even though its too late and he will probably just ignore me anyway. Because at this point it seems like he has no reason to since hes "happy" and doesnt know I like him. Or I just make myself look like a sad loser. heh.
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Post by credo on Aug 29, 2007 16:31:29 GMT -5
No, not castration. I'll just never speak to him again for the rest of my life, it serves as good enough. And Lauren, I'm okay. Or at least I know I will be, which is keeping sane enough on its own.
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Post by daisy on Aug 30, 2007 18:38:56 GMT -5
I don't think you should tell him, Jackie... that would just make it really awkward, and it probably won't make him break up with his girlfriend. I don't know what to tell you, though... does it seem like they're going to be together for awhile, or what?
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Post by ¤LedZeppelinLady¤ on Aug 30, 2007 20:20:47 GMT -5
I really have no idea. His friends are surprised; they didnt see it coming? So it must be really random I guess, I dont know.
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Post by ¤LedZeppelinLady¤ on Aug 31, 2007 18:48:03 GMT -5
*[/size]So, as an update, since I'm sure you are all holding your breath I talked to him about it, and it is his ex and he said they're sort of back together... And he said he meant what he said about me, but "if I would have gotten to him sooner than her he would've been all over me." So to reinforce the title of this topic I have the worst luck ever
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Post by credo on Sept 1, 2007 3:44:48 GMT -5
Bah, there'll be another one along in a couple of weeks, stay strong Jacks.
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Post by daisy on Sept 1, 2007 11:16:22 GMT -5
AWW that almost makes it worse. Just be patient, I guess, and assume that the thing with his ex won't last long? It is his ex, after all-- there must be some reason they broke up in the first place.
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Post by credo on Sept 1, 2007 12:55:02 GMT -5
Yeah Xd you can be there to make it better for him when he's down
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Post by ¤LedZeppelinLady¤ on Sept 1, 2007 13:25:20 GMT -5
AWW that almost makes it worse. Just be patient, I guess, and assume that the thing with his ex won't last long? It is his ex, after all-- there must be some reason they broke up in the first place. At one point he was like "I'm sure you'll find an awesome guy!" which made me feel like crap. heh. But, yeah, he said that they are sort of together, sort of not, so that makes it even more confusing for me... So I guess I just wait and see what happens. And feel miserable and kick myself. #redface#
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